I'm beginning to have a feeling that I might be partying too much at this point. Last Friday, Mark called me up right when I was about to fall asleep. It was a bit past midnight. He said Dave and Lily were with him at Route 66 in RCA and was wondering if I wanted to join. Of course, I ran out of the door within 15 minutes to party with them. I drank and danced until 3 or 4 in the morning. It was the usual stuff I have been doing a lot since I recovered from the appendix incident. Wow...come to think of it, it's been like 7 months since I almost died in that hospital. Life is indeed full of surprises.
Anyway, after going out last Friday, Mark called up again on Monday to see if I wanted to join Dave and him again. I said yes like I normally did. This time though, I learned a very very important lesson -- never trust a drunk man even if he is your best friend.
The thing is that Dave and I have been buddies since university. I kinda know that he has a tendency of acting funny when he is drunk. He can get to the point where he can't remember a thing the next morning. I've seen him like that many times before, but I never thought that he would be so out of control like on Monday night.
It was the usual stuff. Dave, Mark, and I went out and had beer. The boys were pretty stressed from work, so they tried to loosen up by drinking tons of alcohol. We first began by sitting and drinking at a bar then moved on to a club. Dave was extremely drunk and started to act funny like always. However, it was different because he played with me in a way that made me feel really uncomfortable. Although Dave is good-looking for being half Thai - half European, I don't appreciate him touching me in a sexual way. We are friends for crying out loud, and he has a girlfriend. Maybe it was because we were in a gay bar, so I was the only girl within Dave's reach. I totally understand that Dave wasn't himself because of alcohol, but he really scared me that night. There was one point that I actually considered it to be sexual harassment. Thank goodness that Mark was sober enough to help me out. Gosh...I wouldn't know what to do if Mark wasn't there. I bet Dave probably doesn't remember a thing of what he did. How could he remember when he didn't even know how he lost his money, ID, credit card, phone, and even his shoes the next morning? I haven't talked to him since Monday night because his phone was gone. However, Ying called me and asked if Dave was really that drunk. Well, I guess he was.
To be honest, I'm still pretty shock with Dave's behaviour. That lead me to the decision not to party with the boys for a while. I'll give it a rest a week or two. Good thing that Dave and Mark are out of town for business this week and won't be back until the end of the month. Dave'll probably be too busy with work to notice that I avoid him. I hope that Mark won't say anything about it since it would be weird and embarrassing for both of us.
Next time we hang out, I'll be more careful to stay away from Dave when he is wasted. Men are not meant to be trust even if they are your best friends.
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